1st . Quit crying and moaning to random dudes on the interwebz about your girl problems. 2nd. Go out with some buddies, get some drinks and find something female to keep you occupied for the night. 3rd. Ask female companion who you dont remember their name to leave in the morning because you have stuff to do. 4th. Wash sheets 5th. Repeat 1-5 until you are no longer crying in your cereal to people on the net and are comfortable picking up chicks. Eventually you will find one that is worth not booting out in the morning. I may sound like a dick here but most people would agree that I am but this works. You need to be comfortable being alone before you will ever be happy being with someone. I call this cycle of events above "Coping" It works well trust me and Ive done allot of "Coping" in my days. Of course step 1 was never a problem I had. Other rules to follow that help with the coping process. 1. Washing sheets is so you dont have to explain different color hair and perfume smells to the event of the night. 2. Always have Red and White wine as well as some hard booze on hand. 3. Walmart bulk packs of condoms will save you money 4. Strategically place #3 throughout your place so you dont have to stop in the moment and go grab one. (Dont want to give them time to change their mind) 5. Candles. (Vanilla, and Cucumber Mellon works best. ) 6. Always check the couch cusions for earings, belly button rings, etc. (A girl getting poked by one that doesnt belong to her will ruin the moment quick.) 7. Keep your place clean. Helps with #1 and #6 and when a girl walks into a very clean and nicely decorated place, you have much better chances of game on. 8. Strategically placed cameras are always a good idea. In the middle of the events, just reach over and grab and and snap away. - Share pics with buddies at breakfast the next day.