so how am I making things weird? A guy talking to her is one thing but a guy making un-appropriate comments is another, and if you honestly are afraid to talk to actually talk to her then you have zero clue of why I got bent out of shape. Ananda talks to guys daily at her job and they are cool as shit, hell one of her best friends is a dude and I dont have issue 1 with him. As we all know Ananda is on this site, and she has said nothing or posted anything saying that my actions bother her. She has also not said anything in person but agreed with me and that she totally sees my point of view, so if anything gets "weird" at a meet or ride is because of everyone else. Keep sexual comments to yourself and all will be well, its really all that simple.