TKD and FMA, with a little JKD, Muay Thai and Aikido. JKD and FMA FTW! Stay away from traditional martial arts classes if you want real self defense. Growing up taking TKD, when I was in college, I'd accidentally pull punches in real fights... too much self-control at times. Courtesy, Integrity, Perseverance, Self Control, and Indomitable Spirit. Still memorized and lived to this day. You'll learn more in a two week self-defense course, than a year in traditional martial arts classes.