Mr. Jones Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 Find a girl to let you do a2m before you get married. That should be your highest priority ! This man tells the truth! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reed44 Posted April 19, 2008 Report Share Posted April 19, 2008 I hope everything will work out for the best for both of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HotCarl Posted April 19, 2008 Report Share Posted April 19, 2008 I just wanted to update...... She has decided that she does want to stay together and get married. I just have to point out something. The way you wrote this, it seem's like she's got you on a string. As in, 'she said everythings cool so everythings cool and we're all good again' but its all based on her feelings? WTF? what about you? what if she does this again and put's your emotion's through the ringer again just because she's "not sure"? I know you love her and will do anything for her but where do you draw the line? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
99BlownYellowGT Posted April 19, 2008 Report Share Posted April 19, 2008 I honestly dont think it mattered from the beginning what advice we were giving him. So im really not sure why he put the 1st post up there. I wish him good luck but if there is doubts now it is more then likely doomed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tractor Posted April 19, 2008 Report Share Posted April 19, 2008 Haha most of you ain't even old enough or mature enough to know that with women its always about "their feelings" and thats pretty much it. We're men damn it we don't have feelings anyway. Basically they know we want pussy and will get it were we can so they play games and shit until we're whipped or tired of it and move to easier pussy. Thats at least the way it always has worked. I say if the dude wants to stay with her and she wants to stay with him at the moment then its the end of the thread. Sure we might hear about it again in a few months/years, but maybe not. She is coming to the age were she'll probably be fine for a long time before having female mental problems again. Evan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpaceGhost Posted April 19, 2008 Report Share Posted April 19, 2008 I've been so alone for so long Forgotten by the world Forgotten to myself Your effervescent eyes have awakened me And brushed the dust away But I knew you'd never stay So I memorized the color of your eyes as I lost myself inside you And I memorized the way our legs entwined as I drifted off beside you I miss God I miss Waking up beside you At night I cling to you, I'm so afraid Afraid the day will come And I'll wake and find you gone But you promised that you'd not abandon me And kissed my fears away But I woke up to that day But I had memorized the way our eyes would meet reflected in the bathroom mirror And I memorized your naked silhouette as you slowly brushed your hair I miss God I miss Waking up beside you I've been so alone for so long I forgot how much it hurts To wake up so alone But I memorized how warm your body felt as you lay half asleep beside me And I memorized the way the sunlight filled the room and played upon your body I miss God I miss Waking up beside you I miss God I miss Waking up beside you http://smiliesftw.com/x/huge_emo.gif Get out now, or you will later and it will be expensive. If you think a wedding is expensive, wait until you get divorced. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Linc5.0 Posted April 19, 2008 Report Share Posted April 19, 2008 Emo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lawnman Posted April 19, 2008 Report Share Posted April 19, 2008 You and her are young and things happen , both good and bad. Give her time to see what happens . From my experience , and this is going to sound harsh but when someone says they want to take a break , it is usually the beginning of the end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evil8 Posted April 19, 2008 Report Share Posted April 19, 2008 ^^ Great though for ATM makeup sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SinisterSS Posted April 20, 2008 Report Share Posted April 20, 2008 bottlefedfcus if you don't like/want half your stuff give it to me because a lot of these guys make very valid points.....I'll spare you the majority of my story, but she was 20 and I was 22 when we got married and 3 years later it ended in a ugly drawn out divorce, so keep this in mind: it doesn't matter what she says or tells you, its how she feels and you'll never know what she's feeling, she's only gonna tell you what you wanna here, if your gonna go through with it be smart about it, one word: prenup Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam1647545489 Posted April 20, 2008 Report Share Posted April 20, 2008 Dude 20 is young to get married, I mean it can work but you guys still have not gone through the parting stage of life which everyone goes through when they hit 21-26. Once you are about 26 things tend to slow down and come back to reality. But those 5 yrs before you will wanna do alot of stuff that single people would want to do. Not saying you should peace the hell out but I am saying that that is kinda young to be in such a big commitment. I would postpone the marriage and continue to date a few more yrs and see where it is then and if then you feel like it is marriage time then go for it, if not go your seperate ways and have fun and enjoy life, you only get one of them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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