Main3s Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 (For people with long(er) term relationships) Are almost not worth the fucking hassle at times! Saturday is Valentines Day and my G/F has to work from 8:00-1:00. So while she’s at work I’m going to the gym for a few hours. But apparently because I’m going to the gym on Valentines Day I’m choosing the gym over her!? WTF, bitch you’re working!!! Well she’s also pet/ house sitting for a doctor in Powell, so right after work she’s going to stay at this doctor’s house for an hour or so and take care of their dogs. So because she volunteered to work and house sit on Valentines Day I’m not suppose to do nothing but sit around and wait for her? Seriously women WTF goes through your crazy ass head at times? So I asked her, well what do YOU want to do? Guess what her response was guys…..You got it… “well I don’t know…” GREAT! So make me feel like shit for knowing what I want to do while you’re at work and because you don’t know, I’m a fuck jerk. I told her, I’ll meet up with her or when she gets home well do something, but that wasn’t good enough. Then she hangs up on me. So I’m an ass hole right… But here’s the kicker, I went to the Columbus Fish market (she likes that place) and asked to speak to the chef (I have a friend who is a server there)and got the recipe for her favorite meal from there. Shit I even got to watch him make half of it. Went to Whole Foods (they have the best quality food that I know of) bought all the ingredients, cleared out all the beer in my beer fridge and stored them in there. Went out and bought some stupid chick flick that she wanted to see. So I had planned to make this nice meal and sit through a chick flick. But apparently because I’m going to box while she works I’m an ass... now I could care less if I even spend and god damn minute with her tomorrow! P.S. This is a rant , so theses are not my “real” feelings towards my G/F. Just my angry feelings. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evan9381 Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 how long have you been with her? sounds like some crazy shit my g/f would say, but she doesnt work saturdays. ...ill stick around for 5 or 6 years so we can end this thing violently. ive got time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cordell Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 (edited) Ever heard that commercial "If your man wants to spend alot of time with you that's love." and " If your man doesn't want you to spend time with anyone else that's abuse!" For some reason that came to mind after reading your rant, have a nice Valentine's Day. Edited February 13, 2009 by Cordell i can't fucking type. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Main3s Posted February 13, 2009 Author Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 how long have you been with her? sounds like some crazy shit my g/f would say, but she doesnt work saturdays. ...ill stick around for 5 or 6 years so we can end this thing violently. ive got time. :funny: We've been together 6 years! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farkas Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Honestly, I wouldn't want anything to do with a girl that was acting like that. I'd call the bitch crazy and be done with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Main3s Posted February 13, 2009 Author Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 She gets like this everynow and then. Like 2 weeks ago it was perfect. I'd go play hockey while she went shopping with her friends, then we'd meet up after whith our "couple" friends. I'd drink, but out of respect for her didn't get hammered. Saturday we'd sleep in, then just hang out. I love hanging out with her and shes so cool at times. But then something, what that something was I have no clue, happened and she would just start picking at me and would go down hill. I think I started giving her too much attention and she got greedy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farkas Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 I really think girls imagine relationships to really be like what they see in movies and love stories they read about. Honestly, I can't tell you how many times girls come up with some rediculous bullshit about how you don't give them enough attention, like you're supposed to drop everything you're currently doing to entertain them. I don't stand idle waiting for you to do whatever it is you want, I'll do what I want too and we'll meet up when we're both free.. it's that simple. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SRTurbo04 Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 mabey that time of the month? that sucks women make the biggest deals out of nothing...same thin happened to me on my exs birthday when she was out of state...out of fucking state!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave1647545494 Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 bitches are crazy / thread Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sol740 Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Shes a woman, don't try to make any sense of it, nod and step back slowly ... maybe forgo the gym this weekend if it'll make her happy, and she'll feel like you're giving something up to be with her. Ofcourse you guys have been together long enough that that shouldn't really even matter anymore. So I go back to ... "Shes a woman, don't try to make any sense of it, nod and step back slowly ..." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokinHawk1647545499 Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 i get it all the time, gym more important then me thing, best just to ignore her, shrug it off or don't tell her, not telling her would be the best thing. the gym doesn't talk back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Habitual Sinner Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Shes a woman, don't try to make any sense of it, nod and step back slowly ... maybe forgo the gym this weekend if it'll make her happy, and she'll feel like you're giving something up to be with her. Ofcourse you guys have been together long enough that that shouldn't really even matter anymore. So I go back to ... "Shes a woman, don't try to make any sense of it, nod and step back slowly ..." Yeah, what he said. lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evan9381 Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 I really think girls imagine relationships to really be like what they see in movies and love stories they read about. Honestly, I can't tell you how many times girls come up with some rediculous bullshit about how you don't give them enough attention, like you're supposed to drop everything you're currently doing to entertain them. I don't stand idle waiting for you to do whatever it is you want, I'll do what I want too and we'll meet up when we're both free.. it's that simple. ill act like the guy in the chick flick she watches when she acts like the porn star in the online videos i watch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sol740 Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 ill act like the guy in the chick flick she watches when she acts like the porn star in the online videos i watch. By fucking complete strangers for money ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Main3s Posted February 13, 2009 Author Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Shes a woman, don't try to make any sense of it, nod and step back slowly ... maybe forgo the gym this weekend if it'll make her happy, and she'll feel like you're giving something up to be with her. Ofcourse you guys have been together long enough that that shouldn't really even matter anymore. So I go back to ... "Shes a woman, don't try to make any sense of it, nod and step back slowly ..." I give up trying to figure her out. 6 years and I still find myslef scratching my head at times. It's just so random, and a lot of the time it end up being, "I'm sorry, I scheduled work and forgot it was V-Day and was just upset" Which I can understand, but why not just say that? Why make me seem like a dick becaue you did something worng? Oh well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ForeverMaker Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Tell her everything you are going to do for her (with the cooking, getting the supplies etc.) then say... "Does that sound like a nice evening? Great, because it isn't happening because you acted like a self-serving bitch." Then falcon punch her and walk out. (ok maybe not the falcon punch part.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Main3s Posted February 13, 2009 Author Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Tell her everything you are going to do for her (with the cooking, getting the supplies etc.) then say... "Does that sound like a nice evening? Great, because it isn't happening because you acted like a self-serving bitch." Then falcon punch her and walk out. (ok maybe not the falcon punch part.) Hahaha!!! I wish I was that easy at times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Erica Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 WOW! I can see her being a bit upset because she has to work on v-day, BUT it was her bad for not requesting it off! You sound like a super sweet guy! I would think you going to the gym to work on your body would be a nice gift for her for vday as well hahaha! Maybe you should blow it off for tomorrow then bring it up the next day or somthing so the night isnt completely ruined! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TTQ B4U Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 I've been married for nearly 20yrs and will throw in my two cents.... Are almost not worth the fucking hassle at times! Saturday is Valentines Day and my G/F has to work from 8:00-1:00. So while she’s at work I’m going to the gym for a few hours. But apparently because I’m going to the gym on Valentines Day I’m choosing the gym over her!? WTF, bitch you’re working!!! Well she’s also pet/ house sitting for a doctor in Powell, so right after work she’s going to stay at this doctor’s house for an hour or so and take care of their dogs. So because she volunteered to work and house sit on Valentines Day I’m not suppose to do nothing but sit around and wait for her? Seriously Rule 1 Everything has to be their idea. You need to start getting what you want by letting her make the call. Ask for insight on what to do, where to go, what she might consider good ideas for when she's at work and house sitting. Make like you need her help and appreciate her advice while at the same time, miss not being with her. Don't over-play it, but work the game man. You don't have to take the advice, but asking and looking to her for insight with a slant towards her needs will get you laid more often. So I asked her, well what do YOU want to do? Guess what her response was guys…..You got it… “well I don’t know…” GREAT! So make me feel like shit for knowing what I want to do while you’re at work and because you don’t know, I’m a fuck jerk. Rule 2 Understand it's not about you. This will help prepare you for when you have kids and it's really not about you any more. Sure she's going to be pissed...this is America....V-Day is for her not you. Women all over expect us to make the decisions here.....or make them with their input....see Rule 1 above. Combine her insight and direction with a thought of your own. What you did is put it back on her and being a women she's never going to tell you what she really wants. You know that....that's why there are books and sitcoms about this shit. You'll never figure a woman out so you've got to master the game. Remember, those who ask the questions are in control, not those who answer them. I told her, I’ll meet up with her or when she gets home well do something, but that wasn’t good enough. Then she hangs up on me. So I’m an ass hole right… Textbook response. But here’s the kicker, I went to the Columbus Fish market (she likes that place) and asked to speak to the chef (I have a friend who is a server there)and got the recipe for her favorite meal from there. Shit I even got to watch him make half of it. Went to Whole Foods (they have the best quality food that I know of) bought all the ingredients, cleared out all the beer in my beer fridge and stored them in there. Went out and bought some stupid chick flick that she wanted to see. So I had planned to make this nice meal and sit through a chick flick. Good attempt, but you just provided her an option without knowing if she even wants it. My wife would see that as a typical guy way out to stay home, watch a movie and expectation of sex. No-go-bro....she's going to want you to take her out to dinner, take her out to a movie, etc.....or at least ask her in such a way that you come off as willing to drive to NY to make her happy. If you want a porn star night, you've got to live the chick-flick guy part for said night. But apparently because I’m going to box while she works I’m an ass... now I could care less if I even spend and god damn minute with her tomorrow! Rub one out now, as if you don't fix this shit, you'll be with Rosey Palm on 2/14 and no sense in trying to fix it on while wired on testosterone. P.S. This is a rant , so theses are not my “real” feelings towards my G/F. Just my angry feelings. Part of being a guy chasing tail.. Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KillJoy Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Go to the gym while she is at work, and not tell her? KillJoy PS - The "pill" makes girls even more "crazy" after years of use. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miller Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 (For people with long(er) term relationships) Are almost not worth the fucking hassle at times! Saturday is Valentines Day and my G/F has to work from 8:00-1:00. So while she’s at work I’m going to the gym for a few hours. But apparently because I’m going to the gym on Valentines Day I’m choosing the gym over her!? WTF, bitch you’re working!!! Well she’s also pet/ house sitting for a doctor in Powell, so right after work she’s going to stay at this doctor’s house for an hour or so and take care of their dogs. So because she volunteered to work and house sit on Valentines Day I’m not suppose to do nothing but sit around and wait for her? Seriously women WTF goes through your crazy ass head at times? So I asked her, well what do YOU want to do? Guess what her response was guys…..You got it… “well I don’t know…” GREAT! So make me feel like shit for knowing what I want to do while you’re at work and because you don’t know, I’m a fuck jerk. I told her, I’ll meet up with her or when she gets home well do something, but that wasn’t good enough. Then she hangs up on me. So I’m an ass hole right… But here’s the kicker, I went to the Columbus Fish market (she likes that place) and asked to speak to the chef (I have a friend who is a server there)and got the recipe for her favorite meal from there. Shit I even got to watch him make half of it. Went to Whole Foods (they have the best quality food that I know of) bought all the ingredients, cleared out all the beer in my beer fridge and stored them in there. Went out and bought some stupid chick flick that she wanted to see. So I had planned to make this nice meal and sit through a chick flick. But apparently because I’m going to box while she works I’m an ass... now I could care less if I even spend and god damn minute with her tomorrow! P.S. This is a rant , so theses are not my “real” feelings towards my G/F. Just my angry feelings. Sounds like my x. Confront her about it, if you don't see a difference move on. No guy needs that added stress. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ramsey Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 You know what you're problem is? You're putting the pussy on a pedestal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ramsey Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 oh! oh! ummm... George Carlin? eh, Eddie Murphy? shit, what's that from 40 year old virgin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miller Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 40 year old virgin. And originally taken from Eddie Murphy: Raw. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Main3s Posted February 13, 2009 Author Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 WOW! I can see her being a bit upset because she has to work on v-day, BUT it was her bad for not requesting it off! You sound like a super sweet guy! I would think you going to the gym to work on your body would be a nice gift for her for vday as well hahaha! Maybe you should blow it off for tomorrow then bring it up the next day or somthing so the night isnt completely ruined! Thanks! So....What are you up to tomorrow? Do you like sea food and romantic "comedies"? J/K I've been married for nearly 20yrs and will throw in my two cents.... Rule 1 Everything has to be their idea. You need to start getting what you want by letting her make the call. Ask for insight on what to do, where to go, what she might consider good ideas for when she's at work and house sitting. Make like you need her help and appreciate her advice while at the same time, miss not being with her. Don't over-play it, but work the game man. You don't have to take the advice, but asking and looking to her for insight with a slant towards her needs will get you laid more often. Rule 2 Understand it's not about you. This will help prepare you for when you have kids and it's really not about you any more. Sure she's going to be pissed...this is America....V-Day is for her not you. Women all over expect us to make the decisions here.....or make them with their input....see Rule 1 above. Combine her insight and direction with a thought of your own. What you did is put it back on her and being a women she's never going to tell you what she really wants. You know that....that's why there are books and sitcoms about this shit. You'll never figure a woman out so you've got to master the game. Remember, those who ask the questions are in control, not those who answer them. Textbook response. Good attempt, but you just provided her an option without knowing if she even wants it. My wife would see that as a typical guy way out to stay home, watch a movie and expectation of sex. No-go-bro....she's going to want you to take her out to dinner, take her out to a movie, etc.....or at least ask her in such a way that you come off as willing to drive to NY to make her happy. If you want a porn star night, you've got to live the chick-flick guy part for said night. Rub one out now, as if you don't fix this shit, you'll be with Rosey Palm on 2/14 and no sense in trying to fix it on while wired on testosterone. Part of being a guy chasing tail.. Good luck. Good advice I guess, but if that's what it takes then it doesn't look like I'll be getting married....EVER! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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