Coaster Posted March 26, 2015 Report Share Posted March 26, 2015 No kids, only dogs so you may have to adapt this advice: 1. You will get the behavior expected by the most lenient disciplinarian. 2. When all else fails shock collar. The important issue is that you and your wife agree on what the "rules" are, and how strictly they are enforced. If you are fighting over what the rules are then any attempt to enforce the rules just hurts all the relationships. If your daughter likes the rules or follows them is way less important. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Bastard Posted March 26, 2015 Report Share Posted March 26, 2015 On the note of respect, who here would have had sex in their grandparents house? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bigbird Posted March 26, 2015 Report Share Posted March 26, 2015 On the note of respect, who here would have had sex in their grandparents house? Are the grandparents home, or...? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Bastard Posted March 26, 2015 Report Share Posted March 26, 2015 Are the grandparents home, or...? Does it matter? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bigbird Posted March 26, 2015 Report Share Posted March 26, 2015 Does it matter? Only if I feel like putting on a show :lolguy: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
87GT Posted March 26, 2015 Report Share Posted March 26, 2015 Does it matter? If you are an asshole it doesn't matter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sully Posted March 26, 2015 Report Share Posted March 26, 2015 On the note of respect, who here would have had sex in their grandparents house? :whistle: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrs.cos Posted March 26, 2015 Report Share Posted March 26, 2015 so, serious question, have you talked to BOTH of the girls at the same time? LIke just had a sit down with both (maybe while they are watching tv together) and said 'Hey look guys, we gotta talk about this and ill make it short and sweet. Daughter I love you, and am glad you found someone you love/like/etc. Girlfriend, you see like a nice kid. I dont feel comfortable with you guys sleeping together in the house. Call me old fashioned or whatever, just please dont do that here. Its a small request, im asking you to respect the few small rules your mother and i have set out, thanks for hearing me out" get up and walk away, dont leave room for discussion. The girlfriend may not know its an issue to you. No making a big deal about it, just clear and concise to both of them. I do understand you wanting to be respected. I really do, but im not sure youre going to get it the way you are going about it. Respect is earned. it goes both ways. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokin5s Posted March 26, 2015 Author Report Share Posted March 26, 2015 Yes this conversation has been had with all parties involved. This thread has turned into something I didn't want it to be. Although I appreciate everyone's advice I was only looking for opinions as to if people with children would allow their kids to have their significant other stay for 10 days in their house... I'm not really looking for advise on to how to run my house or my marriage. I will save that conversation for a family counceling (and no we don't currently have a family councelor this is a joke) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokin5s Posted March 26, 2015 Author Report Share Posted March 26, 2015 On the note of respect, who here would have had sex in their grandparents house? no Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
excell Posted March 26, 2015 Report Share Posted March 26, 2015 Probably about done here, then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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