Mr Anderson Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 I have a date setup on Saturday. I need a good place to go for the first date. I live in the Columbus area. Any suggestions would help. thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OsuMj Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 what kind of girl is she? what does she like? are you looking for dinner? Don't go to a movie unless she really wants to see a movie... or unless you're putting the middle school moves on her (trying to hold her hand and what not) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAMBUSA Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 I always take my ladeez to McDonalds. Works every time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gsxr750girl Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harb67 Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 Quaker Steak and Lube at Polaris on a Wednesday night If she has a good time, she's a keeper. If she whines, it's an easy way to tell that it's not meant to be and you still get to have a nice evening of wandering around looking at a bunch of sweet bikes. Win-win.*edit* Oh...you said Saturday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessPratt Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 Ummm how much do you like her? Met her b/f or an online type of thing? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Anderson Posted June 23, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 Quaker Steak and Lube at Polaris on a Wednesday night If she has a good time, she's a keeper. If she whines, it's an easy way to tell that it's not meant to be and you still get to have a nice evening of wandering around looking at a bunch of sweet bikes. Win-win.*edit* Oh...you said Saturday. I thought about that but she is busy this Wednesday. Its a great idea too. Maybe if it goes on another date and she loves motorcycles. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Anderson Posted June 23, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 I met her through a friend and I have talked to her a couple of times. I would say I like her and she is really cool. Not a poser or anything like that. She is true to herself and smart. I don't want to end up in the friend zone with her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Anderson Posted June 23, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 what kind of girl is she? what does she like? are you looking for dinner? Don't go to a movie unless she really wants to see a movie... or unless you're putting the middle school moves on her (trying to hold her hand and what not)I am not going to the movie thing. You cant talk during the movie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OsuMj Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 oh god. you boys and your friend zone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siggywiggy Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 funny bone at easton mall / cheescake factory Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmoosego Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 we are good freinds MJ.... it is a really great arrangement we have Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OsuMj Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 funny bone at easton mall / cheescake factoryI like it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Anderson Posted June 23, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 I have been stuck in the friend zone with a couple of girls in the past and its hard to get out of that. They just dont think of you the same way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmoosego Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 you should ask her where she wants to go, and during dinner let the focus of the conversation be about her likes and dislikes, but answer honestly any qusetions she might have about you.... sure to get you a second date... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OsuMj Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 OK NEWS FLASH TO BOYS: Girls put you in the friend zone if they are not interested. It has very little to do with what you are doing.Sorry for the news, but they probably just weren't wanting to be in a relationship with you for whatever reason. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Anderson Posted June 23, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 funny bone at easton mall / cheescake factoryShould I go to the funny bone then to the cheesecake factory. Or just the funny bone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Disclaimer Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 How do you get in that 'friends with benefits' niche? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KruelHouse Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 Plan a picnic (would suggest Goodale Park, but ComFest may serve as quite the distraction). It shows that you are a dedicated planner. This will also give you an opportunity to get to know one another in an easy-going, no-pressure environment. Too often, 1st dates in restaurants are mad-awkward and uncomfortable, as the two of you are just sitting "interview style" across from each other at a table.After the picnic, try go-karting at Magic Mtn., Mini-Golfing, or some other fun activity which will keep the two of you engaged (as cheesy as it sounds, it could be fun).Date 1 should be more about establishing who you are, and less about the "friend zone". If all goes well, you'll still be able to "tap that" in due time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sonavabeech Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 both...eat dinner at cheesecake factory and then go to the show at the funny bone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SWing'R Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 funny bone at easton mall / cheescake factoryI like that one too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Anderson Posted June 23, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 you should ask her where she wants to go, and during dinner let the focus of the conversation be about her likes and dislikes, but answer honestly any qusetions she might have about you.... sure to get you a second date...I like this. Easton gets pretty busy on Sat. Is Brio any good? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DollFace Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 I would say a nice dinner at a restaraunt like Chili's or Olive Garden and then a movie, except ask her what SHE wants to see. I would have the basics planned out, so that she doesn't feel like she is planning the date, and then ask her what she likes specifically. Don't suggest anything, because then she may feel obligated to say yes to a certain movie or restaraunt. In fact, I would just ask her - which restaraunt do you like better - Chilli's, Olive Garden or blah blah? Which movie have you been dying to see - blah blah or blah blah? Give her some choices, but make it look like you are puting effort into planning. Or you can plan dinner and some putt putt golf. I always like that. And when it comes down to the details - show up with flowers, open doors for her and just be sweet If you bring the candy, she will eat it right up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pedro Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 Plan a picnic (would suggest Goodale Park, but ComFest may serve as quite the distraction). It shows that you are a dedicated planner. This will also give you an opportunity to get to know one another in an easy-going, no-pressure environment. Too often, 1st dates in restaurants are mad-awkward and uncomfortable, as the two of you are just sitting "interview style" across from each other at a table.After the picnic, try go-karting at Magic Mtn., Mini-Golfing, or some other fun activity which will keep the two of you engaged (as cheesy as it sounds, it could be fun).Date 1 should be more about establishing who you are, and less about the "friend zone". If all goes well, you'll still be able to "tap that" in due time.Well played good sir!I hear the Barcelona restuarant near downtown is a good place. If it's the first date though Easton Funny bone doesn't sound like a bad idea at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sonavabeech Posted June 23, 2009 Report Share Posted June 23, 2009 both...eat dinner at cheesecake factory and then go to the show at the funny bonedinner + show = put out?? :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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