Ok. So I overreacting to a post that said that the girls were to blame too. I did not read the whole thread and got pissed at what was said. My husband knew all about everything and when Lance started calling me sweetie and stuff like that it made me uncomfortable and I discussed it with my husband. Up until that point is was just two friends talking. Really this whole thing has been hashed and rehashed. Maybe we should just drop it and move on. David and I have said our peace and i for one am done.