What does "normalizing it" mean? Do you really know? Do you know in this state a gay person can loose there job, be denied housing, be denied service at a restaurant for appearing gay? The significant other of 20+ years can be blocked from the death bed of their partner. Is that ok to you? IS that normal for you? Getting Married has jack shit to do with your cult, or any other cult. You do not have to believe in an invisible man in the sky to get married. The fact of the matter is the Act of getting Married has a hell of a lot to do with legal issues of the state. Wills, next of kin, insurance, ect. And on the subject of "Schools Normalizing it" have you been keeping count of all the young teens we have lost in recent years because parents teach that it is OK to demonize and persecute someone they THINK is gay. What if that was your child? If parents can't teach their children not to act like bigots, then yes the school needs to step in.