because thats the only way you relate to things. you call it useless, lol thats why jewelry holds its value well right? and thats cool that you and your wife both agree its not that big a deal to you. what im saying is why are you on such a rant about calling everyone else dumb and idiots that value things that u dont? if you dont want your wife wearing jewlery worth a damd, then dont buy it, not gonna care, i just stated i like my lady to look and feel good.