Congrats! Just remember, they all say you can do what you want in the beginning of marriage. But think of women like catching a fish! You can't just whip a big fish out of the water with one big tug at the pole. You have to be patient, wear it down, making it tired. All the while, slowing shortening the line, and until finally, the fish says, "fuck it", and it's done. Same thing, just sayin............Nothing wrong with being on the line, just Keep an eye on the length!