Oh sweet, simple, DJ. I really thought you knew better. If you still believe, after knowing me for well over a decade, that what I say/put up here or even on FB is "putting my life online" you're far more naive than I ever thought. There's a lot I do that I never post and a lot I post that I never do.
You've known me, what, 18 years or so? You couldn't even pick my 2 kids out of a line up. I don't post them all over social media. I don't post what I'm eating. In CB I will chit chat with buddies about what I'm doing and that's about the extent of it.