When I spoke with a lawyer about the big D a while back, I was told, I would be paying child support even if we split things right down the middle as far as time. I understand that raising a child takes money, but if I'm raising the child half the time and she's raising the other, she's responsible for her time as am I and we can work together on school / sports costs...
as far as the used to joint money at 140k, what about the guy, he's used to that salary as well.... and now he's not only taking her 50k loss, but he's taking more of a loss because he has to cover her "loss" that hardly seems fair or right in any way.