I think if there seems to be a problem, it has to lay between communication and respect.
I have no problem with the 3 strike rule, and feel that it is a very good means of saying, "Listen we don't accept this type of behavior on our public car forum."
-I think that people are to often forgetting of how to respect others. Whether it be a mod or a female, respect them as you would in person...it's that simple.
-People are too tied up in hiding behind their keyboard when they type over the internet. I bet most of us would not "leghump" a woman that showed up at a meet, SO DON'T DO IT OVER THE INTERNET.
The people that encounter 3 strikes, probablly are better off not here, as they have already jepordized the integrity of the board by recieving the 3 strikes.