kids only make it a million times worse. Idk if you have kids or not, but i was raised very conserative and my mom and dad were divorced as well. And I know I put up with more BS just to make "our family" stay together, but once there is an issue there will always be. I tried to change my ex for years and all it did was bite me in the ass.
Though it should be paying off here really so, as the tables are turned and I should be getting my son.