there are a few members here that thier brand of humor is shock/disgust. Brian is one of them (maybe the biggest one)(think loofa and chokeing, and many stories about big shits). You need to understand that and keep that in mind, after all you are dating a vet that was locked in a sand box for like a year with other guys (he most likely said worse over there) so a certian amount of truckers mouth is to be expected. Not saying it is totaly cool but you've been with him enough that you should be ready for it