First of all, neither of them live in Ohio any more which tells me you know neither of them personally or have talked to them live. I however cannot more disagree about Graham, he is a great person. genuine and sincere. Did you actually ever meet him or just perceiving what you want because he has done well in life. It does help his father has been successful which directly put him in a position of success. But I have never met someone with his talent and money, so down to earth at 23 years of age.