thats so sad. i feel for his friends and family. i always try to look at death as a joyful time, not a sad one. it sucks our time on this earth is finite, and in the grand scheme of things, its such a short one... we have all lost loved ones, but i try to hope that once your time here is done, you go to a better place. and i do feel bad for that kid too. he fucked up and its something he is going to have to deal with for the rest of his life. i know a girl who was driving to work one day about five years ago going 20 in a 25 in a neighborhood and accidentally hit a 6 year old girl. the kid ran right out into the street from in between two cars... never even had a chance. the cops and witnesses old her, look its not your fault. the kid ran right out in front of you... but it still fucked her up really bad. she was in a real deep depression and pretty much withdrew from everything. after about a year she started seeing a doctor, and she is doing a lot better now.