I will be nice and say this.
CR is not your best outlet for something like this. It sounds like the computers need turned off, glass of wine drank and sit down and talk about why what he said hurts you. This is a personal issue about trust and understanding. Thought i rather enjoy watching this play out in some perverted fashion, You guys need you time.
If you don't the chance for more hurtful things to be said is high.
ok /be nice
Cut him off and post on cr each day he does not get laid.