$25,000 engagement ring?!? Is she fuckin' crazy??? Does she have you confused with Bill Gates?? No offense to you Bry, 'cause I know you probably still got some feelings for her.... But she sounds like a wet behind the ears, 21 year old spoiled little rich bitch with no clue how the real world works or personal responsibility. Sounds like she's lookin' for a sugar daddy to mooch off of, & apparently thinks she's pretty enough that her looks are her ticket through life Like someone above said.... Better you found out now! Were you guys actually married, or she's just an ex girlfriend? Young girls like that have a lot of growin' up to do. With you bein' 33, you may wanna skip the chippies & look for someone closer to your own age, who's got her own career & financial security, and ain't lookin' to you as her winning lottery ticket BTW.... If you can keep your heart from being involved & fallin' for her again.... Sounds like you could probably keep bangin' your ex while you're out lookin' for the real Mrs. Right. I'd degrade her in all kinds of ways too.... Fuck her & treat her like the dirty whore she is.... Just don't fall into her trap again. Keep your dick in it, and your heart out of it!! She doesn't like what you got on the menu for her, then she can get the fuck out!! No rings, jewerly, cars or $$ of any kind.... No help with bills, finances, etc.... Just put out or get out! It's your terms now!