Let me start off by saying that by the grace of God, some miracle, karma, good Chrysler engineering, pure luck, etc.... Everyone's OK So my wife & sons got hit head-on shortly after 7:00 tonight on the way to the park, by a left of center drunk driver who valued my family so little he immediately proceeded to flee the scene without any concern if he'd killed/injured them. My soon to be 16 year old was driving with his temps, & my 4 year old was in the back, buckled in his car seat. Thank God for that new Ohio law outdating the former 4 years old/40lb rule! I get the phone call & arrive at the scene to find a plethora of police & fire, & the whole front driver's side corner smashed back to the door, rear door won't open, windshield smashed, tire flat with a rip/tear in sidewall, bent rim, & mirror/door handles completely tore off. Eyewitnesses say his truck looked every bit as bad. Tried to get pix tonight, but wrecker put the car inside, so those'll have to wait 'til tomorrow I've already pretty much written off society/humanity, & this is the icing on the cake However.... Here's the other side of the story tonight that makes me tear up with how many people went out of their way to help my family. Turns out guy in truck had just cut a lady off right before he hit & ran my family. She pulled over & stayed to complete a witness report with police, saying my son did nothing wrong & truck guy was left of center. Guy who lives on corner of accident also gave up part of his evening to describe everything to police, & once they caught truck driver, even offered to go with police to ID him for us. He also told of a white minivan who'd been behind the truck IIRC, who immediately took up pursuit. He said it was glued to the truck's bumper as it sped away. Word came over the radio shortly later, that this couple had followed the guy all the way home, where he ran in the house, after some crazy passing & offroading once he figured out they were on his tail. They then blocked the entrance to his road, & told 911 the address. Cops on the scene dismissed them upon arrival, but dispatcher called back & said perp had come out of the house, & asked the couple to go back & ID him, which they did. This couple then came all the way back to the accident scene to tell us what'd happened & that they caught him. I go over to shake hands & thank them, & the husband is hugging me! Turns out they almost lost their son several years ago to a drunk driver. Other friends in his car weren't so lucky & didn't make it The wife literally starts shaking as she's telling us about her son & their similar incident My wife had tried calling me as soon as it happened, then 911, but said she was having a hard time focusing to dial 911, as she was so shaken up. There's a trailer park across the street.... Not a fancy, nice one, but rather older, rundown trailers. My wife said a woman had her head out the trailer window yelling to her that she'd already called 911 & asking if T wanted an ambulance sent out too. Never judge a book by it's cover All these strangers gave up time out of their evenings tonight to get involved & come together for my family. Had it not been for the tenacity of the couple in the minivan.... Who knows if this guy would've ever been found. Findlay's a relatively small town, but just big enough. They put themselves in possible harm's way for people they didn't even know, & I am eternally grateful! I'm just amazed at how the goodness of people was so evident tonight, & how cynical I've been becoming lately As it stands..... The police tell me the guy blew a .176.... Over twice the legal limit. He's been charged with OVI, & is spending the night in jail, with his truck being impounded. I think they said his license is pulled too. I got the distinct impression from the officer that this isn't the perp's first rodeo. I'll find out more tomorrow when we get the driver info with his name. Someone will have to tell me where to plug it in at on the web to find out if he's got priors I'm just dumbfounded about how incredibly lucky myself & our family is tonight; painfully aware of how I could easily be a widower right now, along with burying my eldest & youngest.... Who as I'm typing this, is angelically sleeping on the couch right next to me Those of you who know me & how I am with my kids, know I probably wouldn't ever recover from that one. Just thinking about how close it came has me emotional as I type this Tell your friends & loved ones what they mean to you.... They can be taken in an instant No regrets