El Karacho1647545492 Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 Ok so there's this girl I've been amazing friends with for going on 9 years and there never was nor will there ever be any romantic interest between us. She's 20, as am I, and lives in CT and our really good mutual friend lives in Boston near me. So how do I tell her to stop being an idiot? The rundown: Past 2 years she's gotten preggers 3 times by the same guy who is her long-term boyfriend, each time has been a miscarriage. Its gotten to the point where we've started naming her kids, and then she miscarries and its devastating but relieving cuz she DOESN'T want to be a mommy but is against abortion and adoption. She's on the pill but is very undisciplined about it. The boyfriend is an ass and I don't trust him enough to not be a shitty father and a worse husband. How do I make her listen to reason? I've tried telling her straight up and it wont work that way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HAOLE Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 If she has not learned by the third time to bat.... nothing you can do! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OSUGT Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 this girl has daddy issues you can't even begin to touch on. Props on being a friend that cares though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRocket1647545505 Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 Next time she gets preggers, kick her down a flight of stairs. Believe me, it's for her own good. *ninja edit* - if you get it on tape, you get extra cool points. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam1647545489 Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 Why dont you stop trying to cock block the other guy and worry about your own girls problems, not someone elses, Or just do what Austin said.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crossle Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 Wouldn't even try to change her mind. Like stated above sounds like she had family issues at a younger age and honestly no matter what you say, you won't be able to change what has been going through her mind for the last (X) amount of years. Don't give up on her though, somtimes they come around, but don't count on it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Akula Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 All you can do is tell her a story about a girl you know, then reveal the name of the girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HotCarl Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 Why dont you stop trying to cock block the other guy and worry about your own girls problems, not someone elses, Or just do what Austin said.. See I dont think he's trying to cock block him as much as look out for his friend. It would be different if he was trying to take her away from the other dude but he seem's genuine. I agree with everyone else. I have had too many "best friends" that were dumb hua's about stuff like this. You would sit back and have a great time with each other, honestly become really good friends. Then she would run off with some dickhead and fuck her life up only to come back to you looking for a shoulder to cry on. You are as I was, an 'Intellectual whore'. You give her a part of a man that she cant find in any of the guys that treat her like shit. Ive been through shit like this for YEARS before i finally figured it out. There is not a damn thing you can do about it. It seems you genuinly care about her, if you do... ignore her. The one thing she craves from you is the attention she cant get from her asshole boyfriend. Maybe she'll wise up, maybe you'll just lose a friend. Either way it will be less drama in your life. EDIT: Alex I dont claim to know you or your friend, im just speaking from experience. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
large_x7 Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 Haha. Intellectual Whore. Forgot completely about that web page. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Karacho1647545492 Posted October 10, 2007 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 this girl has daddy issues you can't even begin to touch on. actually, this is 100% true. if there's one person she hates more than her dad, its her dad's skank that he ran off with. Sam.......:shiftyeyes: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2.oh so slow Posted October 11, 2007 Report Share Posted October 11, 2007 so if shes undisciplined on taking the pill she really should try the nuva ring [awesome]. it goes in for three weeks, off for one. very low maintenance. that would at least curb the pregnancy issue. unfortunately the guy issue is a bigger deal. i was totally mind fucked over a guy just like that. it takes a lot to get away or a big change in him/ relationship.... even when you know something is bad for you its hard to let it go.... be a good friend to her... sounds like she needs one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clifford Automotive Posted October 11, 2007 Report Share Posted October 11, 2007 The Nuva Ring comes out on your dick if you fuck to hard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPLN SUX Posted October 11, 2007 Report Share Posted October 11, 2007 I would just say, "hey, you're being a dumb bitch... stop it." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Karacho1647545492 Posted October 11, 2007 Author Report Share Posted October 11, 2007 i was totally mind fucked over a guy just like that. it takes a lot to get away or a big change in him/ relationship a hint to girls...the latter never changes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dragknee66 Posted October 11, 2007 Report Share Posted October 11, 2007 The Nuva Ring comes out on your dick if you fuck to hard. lol Your now going in my phone as "Nuva" hahah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShoMeSomeFun Posted October 11, 2007 Report Share Posted October 11, 2007 platonic friend = dick in glass break in case of emergency <-Thats what ive learned over the years by being a shoulder to cry on, now i just say whats on my mind and no one asks me for advice anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Karacho1647545492 Posted October 11, 2007 Author Report Share Posted October 11, 2007 im not a shoulder to cry on, its just a friendship goin way back to when some mutual friends were dating. she takes most of her problems to her boyfriend, i'm just the guy she comes to for advice about ridiculous circumstances like that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Putty Posted October 11, 2007 Report Share Posted October 11, 2007 If she has not learned by the third time to bat.... nothing you can do! dot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farley Posted October 11, 2007 Report Share Posted October 11, 2007 wow.. shes a typical idiotic women Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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