I feel the same way. LOL!!! I was able to take my daughter out for the first time last night. She's a lot taller then my son and is able to easily reach around me to hold her hands together. She said she enjoyed herself which makes me happy, but she moved a couple times in the middle of a turn so i had to get on her about that, but it was her first time so we'll get that worked out and we'll be good to go. Both of them did really well and i hope they continue to enjoy it so we can go for some rides together. I have to get my wife a sissy bar for her bike so she will feel comfy with my son on the back of her bike, then a givi for me...$$$ in due time....