Thanks....I know that when we were first together i seemed to be untrusting in where he was going and i think that has most to do with the wifeys not wanting the hubbys going out bc of the trust. I realized this guy married me for a reason and if he decided to be untrusting and go out and cheat then thats his loss. I am definately getting better on not caring what he goes and does. But the shitty thing is the opposite schedules and i only really see him on the weekends and shit i do his laundry and clean the house i think i deserve some lovin on the weekend.