So we talked last night and while I knew she wasn't happy with the end result we were able to step away not hating each other. We agreed on who takes and pays for what. It will be in writing soon just for our own piece of mind. She told me that she would like to stay in touch, even if we're not really "friends" per say down the road. Which made me feel good, if it happens great if not at least she doesn't hate me. She has vacation time at the end of August so the plan is to help her move then. In the mean time she's staying with a friend... It was tough, but I feel much better, like a new road just opened in my life and I can finally open things up and see where it takes me.
Thanks again for the comments/ support.