You know, alot of whats being said it "day late, dollar short" type thoughts.
The short answer is LAWYER.
When people say document EVERYTHING.. it doesnt mean record her voice.. it means WRITE IT ALL DOWN, Time stamps, date stamps, word for word.. Write that shit down.
The emails you got from logging into her accoutn are worthless.
If a hospital suspects (knows) someone came in on a suicide attempt they are required by law to make a police report, iirc.
Also, you better learn how to write in paragraphs, that shit was NOT readable at all.
Women are crazy. Especially when it comes to kids and men.