If you are 16 male or female there is not a double standard. Girls ate easily manipulated and believe anything you tell them. Ask any of the dumb bitches I use to bang before I met my wife, not even at 16. It extended to 18, 25, and 35 years of age. Somr are still dumb as rocks at 45. Women are very easy to manipulate. (I only once banged married woman but they were in the process of a divorce). All you have to do is sweet talk them dumb broads and have them get an incling you're a good guy.. Then when they wonder why you only come over for free dinner and sex... You make them think long and hard if you ever mentioned anything about a serious relationship then they sit there and ponder for a moment and you either get cookwear thrown at your head or you get even better sex. In this case I bet the kid was the one where set everything up and initiated everything. On another note. If my daughter was ever in an incident with a teacher I would be much more disappointed with myself for not teaching her well enough that 99% of males only have one intention like I use to have. Have? Who the hell am I kidding if I got divorced from my wife tomorrow I'd be getting some strange and within hours.