slingingchic

Sure: 1.I'm married and have 4 kids total (3 boys 1girl), 1 of which is a stepson. I do not love one more than the other, they are all equal to me. I don't play favorite's. 2.For the most part I do both rolls, I work fulltime slinging Pepsi (not a light weight job), I come home and take care of the kids, play taxi, clean the house, run errands, then on my days off I add running my mom around to doctor visits, testing, screenings, etc... I may not make as much money as my husband, but I work just as much and just as hard if not harder and I still bring home a check. 3.Would love to go to college so I could quit Pepsi! 4.I have a half brother (American/Thai) living in Bangkok that I hope to meet someday, but long after my mom is gone, so I have awhile. 5.I see my husband every other weekend if I am lucky 6.I get 3+ compliments everyday for the ink on my leg... True Story! 7.My husband says I ruined my legs... True Story! HA! 8.Thanks to my job, I wear shorts year around, unless it's 5 below zero. 9.I'm not a girlie chic, I am a real chic. 10.I wake myself up laughing. I love it!

What does #6 say again? I must not be reading this right... Yeah! VERY Interesting... so you installing keylogger and hidden camera in our bedroom was.... what exactly? When a woman has instinct shit is up, chances are something ain't right, things I saw, well it wasn't right, not my style

Lmao my mom uses that phrase often when my ex comes up conversation!

Oh and yeah I forgot, the house dragon has spoken

Now that made me giggle! He suggested I get on here awhile back, you'd think a post like that would have been edited or deleted

Yeah women.... I'm the wife!

Really....Is your wife aware of this?

So true! I bet they take that Rapid Refund too, that's probably part of the $400 being shelled out! That's just NUTS!

oh... okay I thought the mother was in Ohio. That would take about $10,000 for a lawyer... HEY! Hit up that guy at tax time! LOL With the social networking these days, you may be able to locate her yourself. I found my half brother on FB and he lives in Thailand! Or start saving up your money for a lawyer and a PI, I am sure that your kids will eventually start looking for you sooner or later. Good luck with that situation.

So true! But Men as well! Sorry about your situation.. that is some bullshit, CSEA can tell you where they live, if you want to pursuit it, I know a few good lawyers that worked for me, I am sure they can do just as well for you. My bestfriend's husband had a 1 nighter, he signed over all his rights, still ordered to pay support though....unless she lets her husband adopt the kid. I'm still lost on the $200 a month to raise a baby! Babysitters must be free these days... I paid 150 wk for 2, then when the 3rd one came along she still only charged 150 wk (cheapest sitter ever!) WIC? ya, you have to make NO money to get that, same for foodstamps, housing, etc... Not all mothers are welfare trash with those benefits! Seems like your 200 a month plan is encouraging mothers to stay at home jobless and milk the system. $10,000 tax return? Must be some EIC in there, basically you need to be making under 42,000 a year and popping out the max of 3 kids if you want that.

I agree that is a lot for one child, as I said earlier my husband pays a ridiculous amount and she gets all kinds of assistance... It's all about how much money you make and if the other parent isn't working or chooses to work at horrible wages, that's how it is. They know how to work the system. Happens all the time. However if they aren't letting them see their kid, get a lawyer and file contempt, the one in contempt has to go by court order and chances are the judge will order them to pay all court costs and pay back the money used to take them to court.

Their wages have nothing to do with shipping costs, I work for Pepsi, we basically give that away and our pay starts at 15.30 and goes up each year. However we ARE treated like shit lol It's a job :-) Under this contract our insurance is free, except our insurance is shit and we pay 20%, you only get 22 visits a year, which is fine when you're not getting sick, but my oldest has blown those away this year. Braces are expensive as well, 5800, between the husband and mine we got 2000 paid for (which each insurance company hasn't caught that yet, typically orthodontal doesn't do duel coverages). I may have to look into that at a second job though, I'm already used to lifting ;-)

I didn't take personally, each situation is different. I think what you're talking about has income guidelines, the father collects foodstamps, so they are more apt to favor his situation oppose to making him go get a job. It is what it is

I divorced 10 years ago, this is the first time I asked for child support, I thought of it as you. I want them, I can go without support. Situations change over time and it is needed now to help cover therapy costs for one of the kids, from the doings by his father that put us in this situation. 275 a month is not greedy for 2 kids, that's not even covering co-pays. I haven't gotten any support and I doubt I ever will. My current husband though, he pays out a ridiculous amount of money for 1 child while mother sits on ass in welfare housing collecting all kinds of benefits with her boyfriend.

Haha!

I agree.... Maybe he should take on another job though and get snipped ;-), min wage isn't shit. My ex doesn't work at all, so he can't pay me child support and he gets all kinds of help from the state and churches. It encourages him to remain jobless and homeless (if you call living in a hotel homeless).

Not sure of what you ride or if I'm your wife? You're dreaming.

Thanks, Triumph speed triple... You know him

Thanks. Not yet, looking for course during the week to fit my work schedule since I can't do weekend course

Thanks, most likely it's going to be a CBR250

Getting ready to learn how to ride, no bike yet, I just get to look at the husbands bike sitting in the garage