Welcome I'm one of those girls that got set free from the kitchen along with Snot... I'm in Cleveland and haven't really met any other women to ride with yet. I've ridden with a few people here, when they slow down a little & put up with me...
I second MJ's list. Went to SF a few years ago and saw most of what she listed. It was a fun trip. We didn't use our rental car, spent most of the time traveling by trolley (our hotel was only a block away from them).