I think it's more of the fact that she tried to just write it off without acknowleding the fact that she fucked up on it tho.
Of course the people are going to be more important, but it's that same feeling if you are a parent, you hear your child got into a wreck. You check and make sure they're allright, thank god or whatever deity you worship that they are, THEN you tear into them if they were doing something completely moronic . Yes, a material possesion is just that - but trying to just say "oh im cool tho so be happy!^_^" Without taking the responsibility of fucking something up, THATS what would piss me off.
T.c.