It does not have their name on it. The mail does not belong to them, they will not give it back to her, they have stolen her mail. My logic is not warped, it is correct. Think about it for a minute. If you live with your parents, and own your own car, you will have your name on the registration. The car is registered to you, and you alone. Just because the car is registered to the same address as your parents doesn't mean the car belongs to them too. If they wouldn't let you take your car, you could report it stolen and they would be arrested. I know it is a weird example, but it is the only way to describe it.