We might as well just do away with The Kitchen altogether if we're worried about feelings getting hurt or men behaving badly.
The way I see it, this Cody guy brought it on himself. He was given plenty of chances to "cool it a bit" - and even at one point proclaimed he would - only then to return and start in again.
I understand your perspective, I think. But, if I could play the part of devil's advocate, then I'd assert that a piece of the fabric that is CR - some of its very substance - is that you dig your own grave and, when you do, the members here pile the dirt on your closed casket. It's not anyone's responsibility to save this Cody clown from himself.
Lock this thread, give Cody a hug and a warm glass of milk, I don't really care what happens. But let's not admonish CR for being CR. Or, like I said, we do away with The Kitchen.