lol, wow.
You do understand that some guys just don't give a shit right? If he says stuff like that on a public forum, he obviously isn't the kind of guy you thought he was. I love my wife, and would never talk shit about her in public, in front of people, or on the internet. I will however talk shit to her face, yell, scream and get in arguments. We both are very emotional, and make sure we always talk out our fights right after they happen.
Some men (and women) aren't capable of being vulnerable, or admitting that they are wrong.
Good luck with this. Don't expect much though, most guys think they are gods gift to the world, and douche bags.