Just because roles and responsibilities can change, (we have a toddler and one on the way due in Jan so I can understand that), that doesn't change what I said. I'm not talking about who cooks dinner, who cuts the grass, who takes out the garbage, etc.
As for what the states thinks, we couldn't care less how the state views property. Property will never have to be allocated, so it's irrelevant.
Unlike most people in our society these days, we took our oaths to each other, before God, seriously. As such, no division of property will be necessary.