Thanks for all input and opinions. I have been middle man relaying info back and forth, when she does actually put forth an opinion other than "I don't care". This is strictly the wifes car and there will be no modding it, maybe some different rims she really wants pink rims.
For our situation which would be the better option? It would be her daily work car, as of right now its a ~10 minute drive, and then we would be using it for road trips and for dance competitions which are out of state. Example is, regional's were in Cleveland and nationals this year are in Tennessee. Usually nationals are in Florida, which we would probably fly.