Atleast Ohio has tracks that you can race at. My old neck of the woods had one track on the island and it was closed due to finances. If I wanted track prep, I would have to boat my car to california. To come from a place with no tracks to a state with tons and still her complaining is out there. At some point, your going to have to accept one of several things:
A. knuckle up and enjoy the ride
B. travel to a track that meets your standards
C. build something AWD, full a full chassis, and a bubble so you feel safe
D. sell everything and find another hobby.
E. set up your own track rental so it's up to your standards
When a car let alone a truck is going 8's-9s, it's going to be dicey no matter which way you slice the bread.