Ok here is the fill in. I bought a stereo on ebay and the guy sent the wrong one but it was worth more than I paid. When I contacted him he said he was sending the correct one and that he would have UPS pick up the wrong one. At this point it is almost sounding reasonable however I am keeping what I have until the correct item arrives. So I check all of his auctions to see how it got mixed up, and there it is. He sold the same used stereo to three different people within a week. Same scratches, pics the whole nine yards. So the scam is sell one thing and send another have it picked up and you have signiture confirmations from each person so it makes disputes easier. Every scammer knows that they will get caught soon so they make as much as they can as quickly as possible. They just try and keep people hanging on as long as possible so it takes longer to get caught. So I still have a stereo, I will get some or all of my money back and he will be paying the shipping on cinderblocks to florida. So I come out ahead and dickhead gets screwed.