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  1. so can I bitch for a second? I don't get this "Its just a focus" or "just an "impreza" kind of logic.

     

    I think the issue is that there are a pile of cars that outperform it in every aspect at the same price point. Im not a Ford guy, but the Mustang is a Damn good looking car, and the fact that you can get a GT for 8k less than an RS-I think you'd have a hard time leaving with an RS.

     

    ALL Ford had to do was get the RS to like 500CHP and they could have sold em for 50k

  2. she know the cash you have as she has the same cash and if you sell something too cheap she will get an appraisal of it's real value and you'll pay that amount

     

    So if there is a box stuffed to the gills in an undisclosed location, please tell me how one would know whats in it? :p

     

     

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    I dated someone for 8 years, who knew I never wanted children or to get married. Around the 8 year mark, she realized I was never changing my mind, and not wanting children became a problem for her. I cut my losses, and walked right out of that relationship.

     

     

    So who's the real asshole? The girl that wanted to make it work, or the guy that strung her along? If she wanted kids, and you didn't, why string her along? 8 years is a LONG time to wait around for someone, and any woman who was actually worth being around would not stick around for 8 years for your good company LOL

     

    . when I'm not with the kids, we travel, live it up, etc etc. that recharges me for another week

     

     

     

    The one bright side of shared custody LOL. Like I said. pros and cons to everything. One of my wife's friends who co-parents told my wife she does not want 100% custody because she likes to have her weekends off. Sounds fucked up, but I get it.

  3. So far what I've taken from this thread is... MARY THE RIGHT ONE

     

     

    Fixed. Not to take anything aware from adopting, but there is NOTHING in this world, NOTHING- like seeing and interacting with your offspring every day- a little nugget that looks like you, act like you, and wants nothing more than to be you when they grow up. And this is coming from a guy that lived about the most vigorous single give zero fucks lifestyle one can live.

     

    As for the women, people my age can only find decent women via E-dating. Nothing wrong with that- but no women worth being around after 30 doesn't come with baggage. The good ones are taken, and the ones that have no kids, and have never been married, are 100% guaranteed to have a malfunction of some sort. If you are OK with being a loaner, or a Yolo single guy int he dating scene, you eventually be that" weird old guy" at the bar. Its inevitable.

     

    There are pros and cons to everything in life, and marriage is not for everyone. But having a real life long teammate at your side that happens to have Dat Killa' makes a lot of sense long term.

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    Your a big man for leaving it all out there. Props' sir.

     

    As he said, its work no matter what- and kids compound it especially if you dont have family help. But with kids in the picture, you want to do MORE than everything to make it work.

     

    I love my wife, and luckily we have made it though bumps that were 100% my fault. I was a pretty shitty husband the first few year but I am 200% thankful we dint give up. 8 years later now with 2 kids, time together kid free is at such a premium. I can recognize 95% of her stress is because she is with kids all day (she also watched kids int he neighborhood) and if they are being little pricks, there is no outlet. He parents are turds and no help. I take care of my mother financially after her stroke, so she is no help. And my Dad is fully capable but his crazy new wife makes him useless. Any time away without kids costs us $10hr minimum. That all sucks, and it adds stress before I get out of bed every day.

     

    That being said, you always have to look at what the stress is, and try to find a way to relieve it. Sometimes, it cant be "removed" but as Kirk suggested, he took to running too "relieve" it. Start at the beginning- go back to what brought you too together. Find the common bond and focus on the good. You HAVE To have time as a COUPLE, not as mom and DAD. both bonds have to be strong.

     

     

    Also as Kirk mentioned-try everything before you give up!

  5. Dipped my toe in the LS waters. I liked it (a lot) but life is about opportunities, and I'm striking while this iron is HOT. :cool:

     

    Took title to 3 cars today. Go big or go home right? LOL

     

     

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  6. Cordell &Cordell it still sucks being a part time dad.you are goi g to get raped in court. My advice is hang in there until you can

    Hide your assets,cars,money been there done that.i pay $944 month child support

     

    Hope she does not have a CR account. :no:

     

     

    Good luck sir. Sucks to hear, and it must be bad indeed if you are posting about it here :(

  7. Really? I go there pretty often for work and I think it's a pretty nice state. DC sucks since I've already seen all the worthwhile stuff, but I like the Maryland/Virginia area.

     

    Depends where your at.

     

    Rural Maryland is much like Rural PA or WV. Affluent MD is some of the most yuppie areas in America.

     

    OC is great tho. Only downside is colder water.

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