My Burb rides like a Cadillac. Smooth as silk and comfortable. Probably because it has cloth instead of leather. That's about its best attribute. I'm not a fan of the transmission or the MPG.
If you are renting, always always always put the lease in your name only. If you are buying a house, always always always buy it yourself. That way, it's always yours and you can tell her to hit the bricks.