MidgetTodd Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 Any of you saying you want someone there ever actually watched someone die? Other than peacefully on pain meds from old age? I have more times than I care to even try to count. Want me to describe it for you? Better yet I work M,W,F this week chances are I'll add 3 more to my count, you want me to try for video? Quit being over sensitive selfish clueless pansies until you know exactly what you are asking for. It's not pleasant or in any way a closure giving experience and my dying wish is that none of my friends or family are there to see it much less try to hold my hand and be haunted by it for the rest of their lives Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidgetTodd Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 Waitttt, what?? Isn't THAT selfish? And maybe more selfish?Nope, that's me being fiscally responsible Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackFlash Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 I would have fled the scene too... You know what happens when 2 bikes are riding over 100mph and someone dies? The other rider is charged with manslaughter and goes to prison for a long fucking time... I love my friends, but dead is dead, if I can avoid prison I'm going to... Plenty of witnesses to call this incident in, nothing the second rider could even do, and no reason to get locked up for it I'm going to guess that these two were not close buds.It's possible they met on the street and were simply outhaving some fun. I've ridden with new "friends" I met onthe road that day. Close buds would likely stick aroundunless the crowd, with a mob mentality and a negativeview of motorcycles, were mumbling loudly, with severalmembers giving you the stink eye and using words like,"jail" and "hooligans". If you had a reason to fear problems with the police, Iwould prefer you bailed out and saved yourself while youstill could, once someone else showed up to help. Iwould cover for you, if I lived, and say I didn't knowanything about you. . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackFlash Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 I can understand that logic, I just dont know if I could leave mybuddy behind, dying in a ditch. At that point, youve made yourchoices and maybe you deserve some prison time. We don't know that they were buddies. Perhaps theywere total strangers. As for the other rider crashing hisbike while I was simply trying to keep up, I'm not going tovolunteer to be held accountable for his actions I had nopart of. We all ride fast. But let us all be accountablefor ourselves without our buddies having to pay for ourown bad judgement. . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackFlash Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 The state will fight that you were racing, therefore youcontributed to the other riders death.If you're in the middle of nowhere, definitely stop andcall a squad... But on a freeway with a ton of witnesses,somebody else is already dialing and I don't think it wiseto hang around and go to prison. Just make sure someone dialed up for help beforeyou bail on me. Then you are more than welcometo disappear. "Second bike? No, I was riding alone." . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackFlash Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 ...It seems that no matter howfast your going on a bike witnesses alwayssay things like "over 100" or "racing". And this is part of the problem. Two bikesriding together over the speed limit canalways be said to have been racing. Howdo you defend yourself from that whenthree witnesses (family members in thesame vehicle) claim you were racing, eventhough you were only going 10 MPH overthe limit, while trying to beat a rapidlydecaying green traffic light? . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackFlash Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 ...Someone else would stay and face the consequencesof their actions.... Consequences of my actions is one thing.Consequences of your actions is another. I'm not answering for your mistakes. That'son you. . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bakemono Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 We don't know that they were buddies. Perhaps theywere total strangers. As for the other rider crashing hisbike while I was simply trying to keep up, I'm not going tovolunteer to be held accountable for his actions I had nopart of. We all ride fast. But let us all be accountablefor ourselves without our buddies having to pay for ourown bad judgement. .We dont know they werent either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidgetTodd Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 We dont know they werent either.We do know they aren't speaking to each other now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magley64 Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 Consequences of my actions is one thing.Consequences of your actions is another. I'm not answering for your mistakes. That'son you. And that's perfectly fine, but any time I've been part of a group and saw someone crash out, (even times when I wasn't riding with them, or wasn't even on a bike) I immediately pulled over and tried to help. It's just the way I've been. It's what I see as the right thing to do. Whether i contributed to their crashing directly or indirectly or not... I'm probably not going to leave a fellow rider in the ditch. Legal consequences or not. Now whether or not you choose to do the same is your choice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackFlash Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 I also think relying on others to do the right thingfor a fallen rider is a big assumption. What ifeveryone assumes someone else handled it? Try and stop my bleeding and once a moremedically qualified person assists, hit the roadand get out of there, if you feel it's in your bestinterest. I would rather ride with you on the roadanother day than to have to visit you locked upor have you cost yourself a big fine. . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackFlash Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 I also think relying on others to do the right thing for a fallenrider is a big assumption. What if everyone assumes someoneelse handled it? Just try and stop the bleeding until someone with moremedical ability shows up to assist. Then, get your assout of there if you think it's in your best interest. I would rather ride with you another day than for you tohave cost yourself a big fine by sticking around on myaccount. My mistakes are my own. No sense in youbeing lynched for something I did. . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidgetTodd Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 Better yet, get training and be self reliant. Stop your own bleeding. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snot Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 Better yet, get training and be self reliant. Stop your own bleeding.Done! And I agree I don't wish for anyone to watch me die. Just dump my ashes at the track. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackFlash Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 So the last memory your loved one has of you is watching you die?That is completely selfish. I understand your view. But, I'm not wishing for them tohave to suffer through my death without it being theirchoice. The chances are great that many loved oneswould prefer to be by your side as you expire, in hopesof offering some sort of comfort in your last moments. Is that also selfish on their part, to wish to be there whenyou go? . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackFlash Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 And that's perfectly fine, but any time I've been part of a group andsaw someone crash out, (even times when I wasn't riding with them,or wasn't even on a bike) I immediately pulled over and tried to help.It's just the way I've been. It's what I see as the right thing to do.... Now whether or not you choose to do the same is your choice. I'm with you on that. I also would stop if I felt I could dosomething or if I was early on the scene. I wouldn't leavesomeone to rot in the ditch. . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackFlash Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 Sorry. Quotes unquoted themselves the first time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackFlash Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 (edited) Better yet, get training and be self reliant.Stop your own bleeding. I can doctor myself to an extent. It's hardto stop the bleeding on this arm if that armwants to hang limp and I can't seem to getto my first aid kit. . Edited March 17, 2014 by JackFlash Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidgetTodd Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 I understand your view. But, I'm not wishing for them tohave to suffer through my death without it being theirchoice. The chances are great that many loved oneswould prefer to be by your side as you expire, in hopesof offering some sort of comfort in your last moments. Is that also selfish on their part, to wish to be there whenyou go? .I've yet to meet one that doesn't regret being there. The ones wishing for that have no clue what they are asking for. The ones who have hope to never see it again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidgetTodd Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 (edited) I can doctor myself to an extent. It's hardto stop the bleeding on this arm if that armwants to hang limp and I can't seem to getto my first aid kit..Proper critical thinking and triage training will show you how to in that situation using a stable object such as the downed bike and pressure points to stop or slow the bleeding as well as unconventional methods such as the hot exhaust to cauterize the wound. Learn to be self reliant it's priceless the training is out there Edited March 17, 2014 by MidgetTodd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackFlash Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 (edited) Any of you saying you want someone there ever actually watchedsomeone die? Other than peacefully on pain meds from old age? I have more times than I care to even try to count. Want me to describeit for you? Better yet I work M,W,F this week chances are I'll add 3 moreto my count... Quit being over sensitive selfish clueless pansies until you know exactlywhat you are asking for. It's not pleasant or in any way a closure givingexperience and my dying wish is that none of my friends or family arethere to see it much less try to hold my hand and be haunted by it for therest of their lives And for some reason you stay in that line of work, to offermedical assistance to those in need. There must be asense of satisfaction in it for you, to be one that the injuredcan depend on to get them the help that they need. I couldn'tdo what you do. It would haunt me have to deal with the thingsyou've seen and had to do in your line of work. You deal with relatives and loved ones of those in medical need,mostly at the time of the immediate need. Three years down theroad, how many of those present at the time of death wish theyhad not been present, at the side of their loved one, in theirfinal moments? How many would speak up and say they wishthey were out playing golf instead of being there? And why is itthat we always rush to the side of those about to expire, knowingthere is absolutely nothing we can do, when we could just let ithappen and simply attend the funeral instead? . Edited March 17, 2014 by JackFlash Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidgetTodd Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 My satisfaction comes every other Friday when my check is deposited. I stay in it because it's what I trained for and I really only have to work 9 days a month when I do 24/48 rotations or 12 days a month when I do every other 12s, hard to beat the schedule and the Ins is top notch. I've become cold and numb to the emotional part of it as most in EMS do. As for family, yes I've seen several after the fact and all want to forget those last moments. When the Nero stops many things happen. Bladder releasesBowls releaseStomach releasesPulseless lifeless movements happen to confuse and haunt I could go on but you get the point. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidgetTodd Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 Don't get me wrong though I do my job and try to help but when there no point and no chance well I acknowledge that and move on unless it's a pediatric, I still get emotional on those and will work them with everything at my disposal till we get to the ER I'm not completely heartless. But adults, well, if it's your time it's your time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZxHooligan Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 I am not a people person for the most part and have little interaction with humans 12 out of 14 days. So this is based on my work with cows. I see death on a regular occasion with my profession. It never gets easier. I tend to walk away and leave them go on their own. Especially after I hit them with the captive bolt. Eventually you get numb cause you know what the final outcome is. I'm with the midget except on the pay check I do my job because I love my girls even though they've broken all the bones in my feet and my wrist Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackFlash Posted March 17, 2014 Report Share Posted March 17, 2014 ...I've become cold and numb to the emotional part of it as most in EMS do. Don't get me wrong though I do my job and try to help but when there no pointand no chance well I acknowledge that and move on unless it's a pediatric, Istill get emotional on those and will work them with everything at my disposaltill we get to the ER I'm not completely heartless. ...I see death on a regular occasion with my profession. It never gets easier...Eventually you get numb cause you know what the final outcome is. I would become numb and callused, and half crazy. I would view lifeas something disposable and hope to avoid the reaper for as longas I cared to live. With the help of mind altering substances, I maybe able to live with the tragedies I encountered daily and hopefully could still sleep through half of the night. Hats off to everyone whodeals with the passing of life on a continuing basis. :bow: . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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