Mattsn2o281 Posted December 5, 2007 Author Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 Killjoy, yes and no, and not in any respect that i have time to explain. Ben, Thats my main concern, Can she change? Out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
92lx50 Posted December 5, 2007 Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 Do you have kids? If not, get the fuck away from her before you do. Been there, done that, and you have no idea what pain is until there's a kid involved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokin5s Posted December 5, 2007 Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 dude, if Adultry isn't a concern of yours then honestly, why are you with her? how could you marry someone that shares a bed with another man? this I will never understand. Leave her, honestly, neither one of you are ready for a committed relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HotCarl Posted December 5, 2007 Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 Damn... Not really what i wanted to hear, but probably what i need to hear. Obviously, i do want to find a way to get past it, that is showing through in my posts, so ill just say it. I will also add that the fact that she fucked around isn't what has me ready to leave, i'm a realist when it comes to that shit, and the rule has always been come home and be honest. Ive fucked other girls, she has to, and a few guys, and its always been cool. we have always had a somewhat open relationship. so i guess keep that in mind. I'll add this in, i was gone for a year while alot of this happened, not all or it, but 75% happened while i was gone. Bottom line, The sex isnt whats got me pissed, the lying and the deception are. Im WAY confused. Sex is usually the breaking point for most but if you have an understanding and an open relationship then what could be so bad, what could've went so wrong? I dont know. Im an optimist and even I will admit its going to be hard to find another woman that would be interested in a similar situation as you have now. Then again, in situations like this you cant think like that. You cant say 'well who else could be as good or better than she is'. I still say leave her but im single so dont listen to me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattsn2o281 Posted December 5, 2007 Author Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 Ill say sorry now, i'm drunkl and hve been most of the day, and i re read this and it jumps back and foruth i dont make much sense to myself lol. yes, semi op[en relationship, but we always had to be completely honest and open with each other, no forming outside relationships blah blah blah. i guess relly this is what i get for thinking it could work like thagt, but it went to shit. i suck at relationships lol, i dunno what ill do. But can someone plese delete this, i dont know whay i posted this shit up to begin wioth... Thanks for the advice guys, i'm more then likely going to try and find a way to turn this into a normal rlationship as thats the only thing left to try to save this shit. i talked to that thearpist and she was amazed it lasted this long before it went to shit. ill give it a month or 2 and if we cant salvage it, i'm out... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miller Posted December 5, 2007 Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 There is someone for everyone. If this situation/girl are not up to your standards then flip and dip. If you aren't holding aspects in your life to a certain standard you are wasting your fucking time. This is one of those things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ramsey Posted December 5, 2007 Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 Well that's character, and well character in people doesn't change much. It's who they are. If you stay you will deal with this again. QFT. She will do this again. If is she is caught again, who knows. But, she will do this again. There will be a wall if you do get back together and that will eventually tear the relationship down. Cut free now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scotty2Hotty Posted December 5, 2007 Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 There is someone for everyone. For a night then leave. Relationships = waste of time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miller Posted December 5, 2007 Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 bring me a cigarette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scotty2Hotty Posted December 5, 2007 Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 bring me a cigarette Grilled cheese ho. I want pickles too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest RoundIIRacing Posted December 5, 2007 Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 Ill say sorry now, i'm drunkl and hve been most of the day, and i re read this and it jumps back and foruth i dont make much sense to myself lol. yes, semi op[en relationship, but we always had to be completely honest and open with each other, no forming outside relationships blah blah blah. i guess relly this is what i get for thinking it could work like thagt, but it went to shit. i suck at relationships lol, i dunno what ill do. But can someone plese delete this, i dont know whay i posted this shit up to begin wioth... Thanks for the advice guys, i'm more then likely going to try and find a way to turn this into a normal rlationship as thats the only thing left to try to save this shit. i talked to that thearpist and she was amazed it lasted this long before it went to shit. ill give it a month or 2 and if we cant salvage it, i'm out... Matt,she done turned you into an alcaholic,get the hell out of the house,come on down to the shop,and work on that damn mustang project of yours! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slimpsy1647545505 Posted December 5, 2007 Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 I've wasted a lot of odd years with women who were cheaters. . . and this advice still holds true with all instances, even after trying to work them out. Once a whore, always a whore. PERIOD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattsn2o281 Posted December 5, 2007 Author Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 Matt,she done turned you into an alcaholic,get the hell out of the house,come on down to the shop,and work on that damn mustang project of yours! Thagnks, i may do that. Oh yea time line on that car extenrded till aprail or may. Illl see what i got going on, on top of this i'm still trying to get shits ready to move on friday. But dam itz slightely fun being an alky, migt try it more ofton. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattsn2o281 Posted December 5, 2007 Author Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 Jesus i cant speel worth a fuck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattsn2o281 Posted December 5, 2007 Author Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 Fuck! SPELL. Oh Please, DELeTE THIS THREAD!!! kthanxby tripple? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scotty2Hotty Posted December 5, 2007 Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 Thagnks, i may do that. Oh yea time line on that car extenrded till aprail or may. Illl see what i got going on, on top of this i'm still trying to get shits ready to move on friday. But dam itz slightely fun being an alky, migt try it more ofton. No it's fun to be a DRUNK. Alcoholics go to meetings and tell people their feelings. Drunks have fun and lots of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lawnman Posted December 5, 2007 Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 Exactly. If you don't trust her you might as well end it now. + a billion ! Trust is the cornerstone of any relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattsn2o281 Posted December 5, 2007 Author Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 Word. worng label srry, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scotty2Hotty Posted December 5, 2007 Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 Word. worng label srry, DRINK UP! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boost-n-Juice Posted December 5, 2007 Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 Final thing to add, this girl saved my ass from getting locked up over some dumb shit back in the day, before i even new her really, and she has always had my back no matter how fucked up things have been between us, and thats hard as hell to find, and a major reason why i dont want to leave yet... Don't make excuses for her and guess what...she'll do it again. If you stay with her, you'll never get over it but you can get over her. If there are kid's involved it's a different story. One of my Grandpa's last words was he never really loved my Grandma as a Wife because she had cheated on him years ago and stayed with her for the kids. Hell of a man if you ask me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hotrodmama024 Posted December 6, 2007 Report Share Posted December 6, 2007 A women isnt worth having an alcohol problem over. You deserve and can get better then that. You boys and the women you pick today. Have you guys noticed the hotter they are they more pysho? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schmuckingham Posted December 6, 2007 Report Share Posted December 6, 2007 A women isnt worth having an alcohol problem over. You deserve and can get better then that. You boys and the women you pick today. Have you guys noticed the hotter they are they more pysho? So ugly chicks are a better option????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hotrodmama024 Posted December 6, 2007 Report Share Posted December 6, 2007 No but there is a big space between ugly and smokin... dont you think? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sciongirl Posted December 6, 2007 Report Share Posted December 6, 2007 A women isnt worth having an alcohol problem over. You deserve and can get better then that. You boys and the women you pick today. Have you guys noticed the hotter they are they more pysho? i agree.. you guys dont know a good woman when you see one. it amazes me people will deal with such bullshit for a hot peace of ass... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schmuckingham Posted December 6, 2007 Report Share Posted December 6, 2007 No but there is a big space between ugly and smokin... dont you think? I agree to a point, but even when some men to find women attractive( even though they may not be smoking by todays standards) they want nothing to do with that guy or guys in general women=confusing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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