Drewhop Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 Just stop talking to her dont discuss anything if she truelly wants to make it work she will come back running. If she doesnt then you will know the answer. Honestly I know you dislike the age card but it is absolutely true. At the end of the day you dont have the life experience to really understand why Jones and Not Brian really are giving you good advice they just dont sugar coat it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimTaylor751647545500 Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 Just stop talking to her dont discuss anything if she truelly wants to make it work she will come back running. If she doesnt then you will know the answer. Great advice, just ignore her and if she comes back running, then you can proceed with the wedding and the rest of your lives (because then you'll know the answer). Very healthy way to start their lives together. Sounds like real communication there. Steven, people are going to suggest lots of different ways for you to cope with this situation, what you have to do is work this out for yourself and manage everything that's going on with the support of your family and friends. They are the ones that know you both individually and as a couple. Rely on them to help you figure out what's best for your situation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2pointslow Posted April 18, 2008 Author Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 I just wanted to update...... She has decided that she does want to stay together and get married. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coltboostin Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 I just wanted to update...... She has decided that she does want to stay together and get married. Good luck. At this point- it really seems like you'll need it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2 Sweet Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 Yeah man, best of luck to ya. Don't forget what you've read in this thread though, because you never know when she might pull this shit again. Theres a ton of great advice in here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rally Pat Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 Don't look back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpaceGhost Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 Don't look back. Ah the 19 year old giving relationship advise. Kind of an oxymoron ya think? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Karacho1647545492 Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 I just wanted to update...... She has decided that she does want to stay together and get married. Congrats...again? I didn't really get a chance to highlight this before, and I don't know if someone else did though I somehow doubt there was much support among the sea of "you're too young" comments. My girlfriend was having some doubts about us (we're not getting married or anything) so we talked it out, and I basically told her we should maybe take it easy from each other for a while. We did, but the past few times we saw each other we tried to do things that reminded us why we got together in the first place; she's really an athletic/outdoors person, and so things as simple as going out with her and a bunch of our friends and playing football/frisbee made her extremely happy. Try to do things like that if she's having doubts; think about what makes her happy. Not just flowers or jewelry (that works too) but what she likes doing with friends, and do that. If she likes going to movies, get a bunch of people to go to a movie. If she likes bbqing, call a few friends (make sure hers are there too!) and fire up the grill. Just having other people around in a social environment where she can be less concerned about you and her makes everything easier. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Karacho1647545492 Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 Ah the 19 year old giving relationship advise. Kind of a moron ya think? fixt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Karacho1647545492 Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 and the triple http://www.foodfacts.info/blog/uploaded_images/bk-stacker.gif Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jmc3271647545506 Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 i dont know u man but i just got out of a 6 year relationship almost a year ago now it is very hard to think about if your girl really loves u she will stay with u through this . My ex said it was going to take more than love to work all of our problems out that shit really hurt but trust me there are other girls out there i never thought i would find love again but i did good luck to u i wish u the best i know how u feel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Jones Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 I just wanted to update...... She has decided that she does want to stay together and get married. So where does the other guy fit in now ? Is he only going to visit when you are working ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evil8 Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 ^^LOL, Seriously , now is the time for you to dump her! Unless you can get her into some anal fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HotCarl Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 I just wanted to update...... She has decided that she does want to stay together and get married. So.... will you be back in another year crying about how she wants a divorce? Just trying to give another point of view. Hey at least Im not as harsh as Jones. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TTQ B4U Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 insider tip......it's all in the hormones man. I just wanted to update...... She has decided that she does want to stay together and get married. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rally Pat Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 fixt You are only 20. Yeah, you have much more room to talk. Oh and Ben, telling him to not look back is not relationship advice in the slightest. Its a general life lesson that most everyone should have picked up on by, at the very least, age 18 - if not earlier. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AngryBMW Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 You are only 20. Yeah, you have much more room to talk. Oh and Ben, telling him to not look back is not relationship advice in the slightest. Its a general life lesson that most everyone should have picked up on by, at the very least, age 18 - if not earlier. I.Hate.You. As far as the point of this thread...Man, you are young. I hope things pick up and work out for you. If you both really love each other I'm sure you will work it out or end it peacefully. Lets hope for working it out. Good luck, -Marc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rally Pat Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 Aw but Marc, I LOVE you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AngryBMW Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 Aw but Marc, I LOVE you! :gay: -Marc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpaceGhost Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 Its a general life lesson that most everyone should have picked up on by, at the very least, age 18 - if not earlier. WAT? Don't know about your past but I am pretty proud of my past and present I "Look Back" all the time. Life lesson? Come talk to me about life lessons after you get laid for the first time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokin5s Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 have you thought about marriage counceling? Just because she said that she wants to get married doesn't mean that at this point you want to... you seem to have alot of concerns and fears at this point or you wouldn't be posting this up on an online forum. you really need to take this time and seriously think about if you want to get married and if the answer is still yes, then you need to also dig deeper into why she brought up that she didn't want to in the first place... just be prepared for the answer that she might give you. so.. Step 1.) PITB Step 2.) schedule marriage councelor Step 3.) azz-mouth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rally Pat Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 WAT? Don't know about your past but I am pretty proud of my past and present I "Look Back" all the time. Life lesson? Come talk to me about life lessons after you get laid for the first time. I'm talking about negative stuff, not every fucking thing you ever experience. Negative experiences don't make a person. I am proud of many things I have done and experienced, but I have made mistakes in the past. I like to think that I learned from those, and have never looked back on them since. I guess the point I am trying to make is don't let something like a breakup ruin your life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scotty2Hotty Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 I'd back down, and think about this one. You are 20, say 1 year it's great, but who knows, come 22-23, you'll be bored. You're in the prime age, go out be young, and be happy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
87GT Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 Find a girl to let you do a2m before you get married. That should be your highest priority ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 614Streets Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 You shouldn't have to change anything you would rather not , about yourself , to keep your relationship , but you have to analylize it all. What I mean by analylize is, ass fuck her in public , like in a park off the side of the trail. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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