John Bruh Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 Anyone know anything about these. Im gonna get married but i would like to have one incase things go sower. anyone have and suggestions on what lawyer to use? How long does it take to get one and how much does it cost for lawyer fees 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ODoyle Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 Nothing says lets be together forever like a pre-nup. Lol j/k I bet a divorce lawyer could write one up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
excell Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 Nothing says lets be together forever like a pre-nup. LOL'd. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Bruh Posted July 29, 2008 Author Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 better safe than sorry. i dont think ill ever need it but with the assests that i have im not going to get fucked. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rally Pat Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 better safe than sorry. i dont think ill ever need it but with the assests that i have im not going to get fucked. Nothing says lets be together forever like a pre-nup. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Akula Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 You have to have a lawyer do it or it won't be as air tight as you want. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Bruh Posted July 29, 2008 Author Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 im not asking for stupid fucking comments, but just anyone know of a lawyer to call and how much$ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OSUGT Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 im not asking for stupid fucking comments, but just anyone know of a lawyer to call and how much$ Try to look beyond the sarcasm and and grasp the concept. If you do not trust yourself or this woman with every fiber of your being, don't get married. Same should go for her. That being said, I've got this program. It works. The attorneys are top notch and you don't get railed with high billable hours. https://www.prepaidlegal.com/ Best of luck to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Pomade Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 Seriously, why all the lame ass replies? IMO, a pre-nup is the only way to go. And, might I say, if you and your significant other love each other as much as you say you do, then neither of you should have a problem signing a pre-nup. I know have a recommendation for an excellent family relations attorney, if you'd like it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HAOLE Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 If you do not trust yourself or this woman with every fiber of your being, don't get married. Same should go for her. QFT Marriage is forever. IMHO getting a prenup only sets an expectation of failure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
99BlownYellowGT Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 Ok am i the only one thinking what possibly could a 20yr old have that is so valuable that he would need a prenup? Because if you earn things while you are together then it was done as a team and she would deserve some of it if things went sour...maybe im wrong here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xlr8tn Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 I've been happily married twice.....if you have something you want to protect make her ass sign a prenup. Don't listen to the marriage is forever bullshit because divorce statistics say that's not the case. Your little honey bunch turns into a cut throat bitch and will try to take the shirt off you back and leave you for dead. Like was said above, make sure you get a lawyer to write it and make it air tight because even with prenups they still have a way of getting at your shit. good luck with the wedding Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Pomade Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 Not having a pre-nup is about as smart as not wearing a seatbelt. Both are preventive measures that you can easily enact to protect you from something that you absolutely, without a doubt, cannot ever fathom predict occuring in the future. Are pre-nups unromantic? Sure. But are they the smart choice to protect you financially - and even emotionally - in the event the unspeakable occurs? Absolutely. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slimpsy1647545505 Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 Ok am i the only one thinking what possibly could a 20yr old have that is so valuable that he would need a prenup? Because if you earn things while you are together then it was done as a team and she would deserve some of it if things went sour...maybe im wrong here That's what I was thinking. Maybe a sweet inheritance? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Bruh Posted July 29, 2008 Author Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 200k house, 3 paid for vehicles. all i worked for myself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slimpsy1647545505 Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 200k house, 3 paid for vehicles. all i worked for myself Columbian drug lord? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wease Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 200k house, 3 paid for vehicles. all i worked for myself You bought and paid for a $200K house at age 20? Wow... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kinkinhood Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 I do kinda have to say damn, you're really rolling in the money. as for the prenup, hell yes get it. Agreed it will seem unromantic, but current divorce courts are heavily weighed towards the woman who would be so 'helpless' should they get a divorce. Saying a prenup is garunteeing you'll get a divorce is like saying gearing up completely for riding a motorcycle is garunteeing that you're going to go out and crash. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sig600 Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 Ok am i the only one thinking what possibly could a 20yr old have that is so valuable that he would need a prenup? Because if you earn things while you are together then it was done as a team and she would deserve some of it if things went sour...maybe im wrong here Since he posted he has a $200K house and 3 vehicles, this won't really mean much...but: I will never say "I do" before I have a little signed paper, for the simple fact that we (my family) own and operate a fairly successful business, and it has been that way for about 50 years...it was here before her, and will be after her, whether she wants to be a part of it while she's here, who cares...she will not be once she's gone;) She will just have to trust me to take care of her when things go sour...if not, get lost! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Bruh Posted July 29, 2008 Author Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 the house isnt paid for but i only owe 100k Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slimpsy1647545505 Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 the house isnt paid for but i only owe 100k Might I ask, what do you do for a living at the ripe age of 20? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Bruh Posted July 29, 2008 Author Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 oh and a family business thats worth quite a bit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buck531 Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 He drives a cougar and makes $145k a year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hal Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 Seriously, why all the lame ass replies? IMO, a pre-nup is the only way to go. And, might I say, if you and your significant other love each other as much as you say you do, then neither of you should have a problem signing a pre-nup. I know have a recommendation for an excellent family relations attorney, if you'd like it. I have to say I agree. If the trust is there 100%, where is there an issue? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash Posted July 29, 2008 Report Share Posted July 29, 2008 I have to say I agree. If the trust is there 100%, where is there an issue? Does that mean we are getting one? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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