Carwhore Posted June 24, 2011 Report Share Posted June 24, 2011 from personal experiences:If she has mail coming to you're address you will legally have to evict her (if she doesnt want to leave). Even if there isn't any lease agreement or shit like that cops won't do anything. Also don't just threw her shit out and change the locks if she's going to be pissed, she can make you let her back in.If she left peacefully, then yes change all locks immeditaly and tell her to fuck off.GL. Bitches be crazy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bowdog Posted June 24, 2011 Report Share Posted June 24, 2011 tread lightly, if she lived there and can prove it (mail, bills, ect) you can't just lock her out if she does not want to go. You have to go through an eviction process.This is very true!! If she has mail coming there and wants to really push the issue she can file all sorts of shit against you in court if you do not properly evict her. Personally i will file the eviction if you are serious and not tell her about it until it becomes and issue where you need it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReconRat Posted June 24, 2011 Report Share Posted June 24, 2011 throw in a sleeping bag and quick change the locks on the doors...ok, I retract previous... no sleeping bag, and IF she moves out, change the locks... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gump Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 (edited) You have no lease agreement, verbal or written..she is an overnight guest who has overstayed her/his welcome, it could be 5 years, doesn't matter. Mail doesn't matter.. Cops will tell you differently if she calls them but they are wrong, stick to the she's an overnight guest who has overstayed her welcome story. You could have them call your lawyer when they disagree with you and you don't have to open the door for her or the cops if she shows up with them. You can leave her stuff somewhere locked up safe like the garage and change the locks before she gets home. Now, if she paid rent and can prove it, not utilities, you're screwed and must evict. Edited June 25, 2011 by Gump Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tyler524 Posted June 25, 2011 Author Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 She came home last night and slept here and is at work right now. Her stuff is still sitting in the foyer but she is going to look for an apartment with her friend. I'm not really going to be a dick about it and she can stay on the couch til then. I will be busy with work and what not so it's fine with me. Let her find a decent place where she can take her dog and cat with her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saralynn518 Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 My friend still gets some mail delivered here and she hasn't lived here in 10 months. I hope that wouldn't give her the right to come back lol. Hell, I still occasionally get a piece of mail from the people that owned the house before me 7.5 yrs ago lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gump Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 She came home last night and slept here and is at work right now. Her stuff is still sitting in the foyer but she is going to look for an apartment with her friend. I'm not really going to be a dick about it and she can stay on the couch til then. I will be busy with work and what not so it's fine with me. Let her find a decent place where she can take her dog and cat with her.Good choice... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saralynn518 Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 She came home last night and slept here and is at work right now. Her stuff is still sitting in the foyer but she is going to look for an apartment with her friend. I'm not really going to be a dick about it and she can stay on the couch til then. I will be busy with work and what not so it's fine with me. Let her find a decent place where she can take her dog and cat with her.You're a good-hearted man Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReconRat Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 Guess my generation was different. It was more like... "you leaving? Ok, see ya." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadyone Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 Just went through this tonight actually. except I was the one moving out. she got pissy again and said to take your stuff and don't come back. so i started packing. then she got even madder because i was so "eager to leave". mainly I'm just done dealing with the bullshit. luckily if all goes right ill have a new job and not be around when she thinks she screwed up and wants me back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sapphy Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 It is drama like the stories in this thread that has made me give up and stop dating. That, and I can't find anyone that can keep up with me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kawi kid Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 ? Keep up with you in what sense? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bad324 Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 It is drama like the stories in this thread that has made me give up and stop dating. That, and I can't find anyone that can keep up with me.I stayed single-ish for about 8 years and always used these type stories as my excuse when really it was I didn't wanna get tied down and miss out on opportunities to be a manwhore Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saralynn518 Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 I stayed single-ish for about 8 years and always used these type stories as my excuse when really it was I didn't wanna get tied down and miss out on opportunities to be a manwhore Well, at least you grasp the concept that it's not okay to be a manwhore once in a relationship like a lot of guys I know lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wicked1 Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 I stayed single-ish for about 8 years and always used these type stories as my excuse when really it was I didn't wanna get tied down and miss out on opportunities to be a manwhore ha I had a flash to the movie The Hangover - you're one man wolf pack huh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bad324 Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 Well, at least you grasp the concept that it's not okay to be a manwhore once in a relationship like a lot of guys I know lol.yea I'm one of those "if I'm gonna do it, I wanna do it right" types. If I'm gonna be single, well then I'm surely gonna take advantage of sampling whats available. If I'm in a relationship (which is rare but my current status) well then I'm gonna do it the right way, if something better comes along well then she'll just get the boot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slickster Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 Keep your chin up buddy....she will realize she lost a good thing and you're better off without her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bad324 Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 B.a.s.b.h.a.t Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sapphy Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 ? Keep up with you in what sense?I tend to not be a home body. I am in a lot of things, from motorcycles to historical reenactments. Anyone I am with, I would want to have the energy and interest to keep up with me and want o be involved in some of it.I stayed single-ish for about 8 years and always used these type stories as my excuse when really it was I didn't wanna get tied down and miss out on opportunities to be a manwhore yea, but I am not doing that. No, it really is, I am sick and tired of the drama. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
idodishez Posted June 25, 2011 Report Share Posted June 25, 2011 She got pissy again and said to take your stuff and don't come back. so i started packing. then she got even madder because i was so "eager to leave".Surely you know what a woman says isnt really what she wants. But I'd do the same thing. I hate games and manipulation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saralynn518 Posted June 26, 2011 Report Share Posted June 26, 2011 Surely you know what a woman says isnt really what she wants. But I'd do the same thing. I hate games and manipulation.I think we all say things when we are hurt or mad that we don't exactly mean. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmoosego Posted June 26, 2011 Report Share Posted June 26, 2011 It is drama like the stories in this thread that has made me give up and stop dating. That, and I can't find anyone that can keep up with me.oh psshhhhaaaa!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmoosego Posted June 26, 2011 Report Share Posted June 26, 2011 Well, at least you grasp the concept that it's not okay to be a manwhore once in a relationship like a lot of guys I know lol.you referring to anyone particular? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
idodishez Posted June 26, 2011 Report Share Posted June 26, 2011 I think we all say things when we are hurt or mad that we don't exactly mean.Inexcusable. No games. U wanna play games and manipulate, move on! (and I have, several times) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saralynn518 Posted June 26, 2011 Report Share Posted June 26, 2011 Inexcusable. No games. U wanna play games and manipulate, move on! (and I have, several times)I've never met someone who was perfect before. Must be my lucky day.You probably move on several times because you don't want to put in the effort to work on things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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