from a woman's perspective..... I hate arguing. I wish I could have a relationship without arguing. I know they say some arguing is healthly, but it really gets old. What she is wanting from you is to listen to her bitch about whatever and just say "yes, dear". So, when you have two people that come together that are both stubborn and strong willed, this becomes a problem. You say you know you are right, but she says she knows she is right. So, who is right? In my opinion it is more of a personality conflict. One thing I have noticed about men is you wanna fix stuff, make things right. But, if we women are just venting about something and you go to put in your 2 cents and we didn't want to hear it, a fight arises. You may think we were wrong about something, even though we are just venting and not trying to get an opinion or advice on how to make things right. But, at the defense of men, women should communicate that when we are just venting and don't want your feedback. Kinda went off topic there. But, really, you guys should talk about that specifically. It only gets harder with marriage, and when you throw kids into the mix (*cringe*). So, do yourself a favor, if you want things a certain way, lay it all out on the table now. Try and work together to make each other happy. Tell her you want to make her happy and ask her what she wants from you. You do the same. Tell her what makes you happy. It takes work. If she says "I just want you to be my bitch" then throw up a couple fingers and say "peace be with you" and leave dude. Hope that helps