Another sign of the times..... Everything is about what you have, not who you are. I don't have a lot, but it's more than I NEED, so I'm happy with it. The relationships I have with the people in my life mean more than all the stuff I have. As long as I have a roof over my head, heat, lights, transportation, and a bike, I'm ok. I have to send out props to you for having everything paid off though, that's the way to have it! It sounds like you're a pretty smart guy, you'll get the woman situation figured out (as much as it can be figured out, that is!)