Let the daughter move back in but only if she finds a job and pays rent. don't let the boyfriend move in. Only 20-24? then his folks should be alive still? I moved out when I was 19, came back for a short period when I was 20 something, moved back out quickly and have never went back. Love my folks, hell they live like 5 mins away from the wife and I. I see them every week seems like it. I haven't asked them for money in a long time. Been working since I was 13-14 years old.