The more you do to try and reconcile issues with her and keep things civil, and out of court, the better for YOU when you GO to court.
TRY TRY TRY first. You'll be better off. I never said close your door. Find two or three things that seem like compromise and offer them to her, i.e., no working on your car after 9 pm, or before 10am on Sunday, or whatever. Make something up. Write it down.