No, believe me, I get it. I'm all for defending yourself. Just don't get too bent out of shape. The guys here aren't jerks, it just seems that way. For better or worse, this place (CR) shows a lot of "tough love." It's kind of the culture. Not saying it's good or bad, it just is what it is. Over time, you learn to accept it, roll with it, and even embrace it. Think of it as one big, very dysfunctional family.