Planet fitness shames people who actually try in their gyms. They have a big button that you press if someone is making you uncomfortable, grunting, lifting too much etc.. You arent allowed to dead lift. They give you pizza once or twice a week.
Ive been with the YMCA for about a year now. its cheap ($30/month) and has plenty of locations. Pools, basketball, indoor track, etc... Def worth the money IMO.